My Girlfriend Ignores Me – 3 Common Reasons


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5 Responses to “My Girlfriend Ignores Me – 3 Common Reasons”

  1. vanvark83 wrote::

    I was bailed today and summoned to court later this month.

    I will refer to the attacker as “Jenny” to keep the identity Anonymous.
    Earlier in the year, I was on my way to college when I saw a friend. I went over to her and noticed my ex there as well. (They know each other from school). As I walked past her, she kicked me. I chose to ignore that and continue to my friend. As we were speaking, Jenny chose to keep interrupting by adding comments about my current girlfriend such as “That slag who cheated on you” etc. I responded most times with “grow up!” or “Keep out of it.” She also blew smoke in my face as she knows I dislike it.

    She kicked me again while I was talking to my friend *she had a history of “bullying” me* hence the reason she’s my ex. As I went to walk into college, Jenny decided to kick me again. This time I had the chance to defend myself. I performed a pushkick to her upper chest, below the neck resulting in her being pushed back. This worked and I was able to get into college.
    I know this kick did not hit her in the face as I have been doing Taekwondo for 3 years now and I am far too good to miss the target I was aiming for even in such a rush.

    I do know that a licence does not permit me to do whatever I like with it, but I know I am also allowed to defend myself even without one. The biggest problem for me is that she’s a girl, and I’m a guy…I’m considrably taller than her, about 2 Stones heavier than her.

    I was expelled from college as a result and arrested for more than I expected.
    I understand the common assault, but she also decided to claim that I raped, yes raped her! Of course CID investigated this and I was, and I’ll be hones, shitting myself. I then done some home research and spoke to a lawyer in which gave me confidence to be like I did nothing wrong and that I can prove that I didn’t. I will not go into details but no further action was taken and case was dropped.

    To my question – I need advice on this. I did indeed hit her, but it was an act of self defence. She has 3 witnesses and I have none. My friend saw nothing… =/ They lied in the college report and Jenny has lied in her police report. College report says she did not kick me, police report said she went to kick me but I walked into it. It also says I use my left foot, when it was indeed my right.

    I will be seeking legal aid, and pay if I really have to.

    If you need more information, I will supply as much as I can. As for the details, they sum up what happened.

    I get to see the statements the middle of this month so will update here when I get them, but I’ve no idea what is going to happen. I think her witnesses are going to be shit to be fair. They were going to charge me to court from the start, no doubt about it.

    -Lee
    Also, this is for UK. :)
    Inturies – Soft tissue damage on the face.
    I did not hit her face, I am positive of this! :)
    @Answerguy – The rape was meant to have happened 4 years ago dude. lol!

    Common Assault will go to the Magistrates and the rape one would have gone to the CPC (Crown Prossicution Court) with a judge and jury. They will only send to the CPC if they THINK they can get a “he’s guilty” like…

    As for the self defence law – http://www.bsdgb.co.uk/index.php?Information:The_Law_Relating_to_Self_Defence

    May I add, the last time she went to hit me, she did not make contacts as I had got there first.
    @Alice – She went to kick me again. Legs are a lot longer than arms, and by pushing, I would have been getting closer. I was also is an impossible position to push her as I had my back left to her. I did not kick her after she kicked me, but as she went to kick again.

    Do I feel that I was in danger? Yes I do. She is a big girl, and with enough force she could have caused some damage as she took a good swing to hit me again.

    As for the walking around her…that is exactly what I did. I did try to evade the attack, but this did not work. I never said I hit her in the neck…I hit her below the neck.
    “below the neck resulting in her being pushed back!” :)

    Monday, February 3, 2014 at 12:00 pm #    
  2. Noe R wrote::

    Me and this girl have known each other for quite a while now. We first started off as bestfriends and we developed feelings for eachother very quickly. Then after a week we started liking eachother and we had EVERYTHING in common! I felt like she was the one for me, she felt like I was the one for her and we would talk non-stop. every single day. The thing is, im 17, and shes 15. Not that big of a deal but her friends have an issue with that for some odd reason. Anyways, I ended up asking her out after 2 months. and it honestly felt like we were together from the day we met. Being with her was the best feeling a guy could get, she always smiled at me, we always laughed and it was amazing. Then after 2 months of dating her, we were on facebook and she messaged me, when I looked at it, She was saying “Dane” Over and over . (that’s my name) She wouldn’t stop messaging me that until I noticed. then I asked what was wrong and she just brokeup with me.. and later that day I called her up and we talked and she was crying and she said she loves me with everything she has, and I love her too. I told her ill always be there for her . and after that day, we carried on acting like we were a couple. even though we both knew we weren’t together. I still loved her the same and we did everything still.
    Well, after the first 3 months of us being broken up.. she told me she had a boyfriend.. And I know I messed up when I started getting all upset. and I sent her messages, called her, talked to her whenever I had the chance and told her how much I loved her. and then she started ignoring me. I felt so heartbroken during that time and ive never been hurt so much in my whole life Still to this day, its the worst pain ive been through. Anyways, we didn’t talk for 3 months. Whenever I talked, she ignored me. and it was horrible.. then her and that guy brokeup. and she called me and told me and I just helped her through it. .. Then we went back to being flirty.

    Okay, now here’s the part I need help with .
    Me and her were friends after that, but she ignored me once in a while. In January I messaged her after a month without talking.. and she told me she was with a new boy. And I just said ” that’s good, im happy for you” and she said this ” We cant be talking anymore. T_ _ _ _ _ _ said we cant talk anymore ” And then I asked if she could talk to me once in a while. and she did.
    She would message me twice a month. So when I got the chance.. I said ” what are your thoughts about me now” And she said that she thinks im amazing, the sweetest guy in the world, Funny , ” And she said she thinks im everything I was in our relationship. and I asked why she ignores me sometimes… She said ” Im afraid i’ll love you again” So I know.. if I talk to her for a whole month without being ignored.. she;d have feelings. And also,, she said that if her and her boyfriend breakup, me and her have a chance.. the Problem is, shes happy with her boyfriend. But I was her First Love. and I think me and her have a future. I think were perfect for eachother.
    I just need help getting her back.
    Don’t be rude. I just want to know how. and don’t say move on, ive tried that.. it Doesn’t work, I cant be myself around anyone except her. and ive never loved anyone or had feelings like that for anyone, except her.

    Sunday, March 2, 2014 at 1:44 pm #    
  3. norrin_shadowwolf wrote::

    My girlfriend and I have been dating for the past 3 months, but we’ve known each other since high school. We are both in our 20′s, I am 23 and she is 22. We have great chemistry together, have a lot in common, have great conversations, and I feel so comfortable with her that I feel like I can tell her anything. I have been nothing but a great boyfriend to her, i’m a gentleman with her: i respect her, open doors, pull out her chair, send her flowers, bring her soup when she’s sick, pay for dates, and walk her to the door after dates. She has told me something really personal about her past that she said her best friend Ashley was the only other person who knows, so I know she trusts me. Everything has been great when we spend time together, but our relationship really lacks when we’re not together. She never answers my calls, never returns my calls, and never calls me. I have talked to her about this before, and she always gives the same excuses that she’s busy, with friends or family, or just tired. She works during the day, I always call her at night, so I know there’s no reason that she couldn’t answer the phone. The only form of communication I have with her when we’re not together is through texting, and even that lacks, she only texts me after I text her first. I teach a film workshop for teens and on Saturday she was supposed to come and help me. I knew she had to work during the day, so I pushed the start time for the workshop back so she could make it after work. I texted her during the workshop to see if she was still coming, and she said that she was just clocking out of work and when she got home, she would see if there was enough time to come. I told her that we were ending early because most of the teens had to go home, i told her that she doesn’t have to worry about coming, but I was still hoping to see her. I knew she was going to spend time with her group of friends after the workshop, I asked her what time she was meeting them, and she said as soon as possible, considering the workshop ended early. I told her that I wasn’t doing anything that night, that I guess I’ll have to figure out what I’m going to do. Her group of friends consists of mostly couples, and I thought that she would’ve done the nice thing and invite me to come along, but she didn’t. We were supposed to spend time together the next night, so i said “well i guess i’ll see you tomorrow night then” and she said “Mhm”. Well, it seems she still didn’t get the hint that I wanted to see her that night. I was really hurt that she didn’t invite me to come along with a group of mostly couples, considering i am her boyfriend. I sent a text asking her if she was ashamed or embarrassed about me, because there has only been one time in 3 months that she has asked me to come spend time with her and her group of friends. She didn’t answer that text or call me, so I call her about 3 hours later, she doesn’t pick up, no surprise there, and I leave a voicemail saying that I was hurt after her not answering my text, that I think we need to talk and if she didn’t call me back that night, then i told her that we should cancel our plans for the next night. Well, she didn’t call or text me that night, and the next day I did not receive a call or text from her. I know she got my voicemail, because she didn’t call or text to ask what time I wanted her to come over my house. It is now Monday, and I have not heard anything from her since Saturday. Lately, it seems that because I never get to talk to her on the phone, that when we’re together, she only spends time with me when she has nothing better to do. This is not the first time she has ditched me for her group of friends. I am tired of being treated like her last priority, I am her boyfriend, not some random guy she happens to spend time with occasionally. She has even introduced me to her family and friends as her boyfriend, but doesn’t treat me like it. Any advice would help.

    Tuesday, March 4, 2014 at 9:31 pm #    
  4. Joey 01 wrote::

    is that bad!!??

    Tuesday, March 11, 2014 at 8:00 am #    
  5. Caltel T wrote::

    This question’s for people who have ever wanted to get back together with or win their ex back…

    1) Why did you want to get back together with them?
    2) If they broke up with you, why did you think you would be able to win them back?
    3) Would you or did you try to get back together with them even if it was clear that they were not interested in doing that?

    I realise that this can be a rather personal question, however, I am currently in a situation where my bf’s ex is clearly trying to inch her way back into his life. She caused him a lot of hurt and was the reason why he went through one year+ of severe depression. He’s cut off all direct means of (and ignores) contact from her but she’s still attempting to “get a foot in the door” via his friends and relatives.

    Granted, they were in a long-term relationship (3+ years) but it did end rather badly. Anyway, I would just like some insight on her motivation, thought process, etc.
    I’m pretty happy with how he’s handling things, but she’s just really persistant. Also, I’m trying my best not to let it bother me but it seems to be one of those annoying things that sits in the back of my mind. :
    I do completely trust that he will do the right thing by me and quite frankly, she doesn’t stand a snowflake’s chance in hell with him. But yeah, the too-curious-for-my-own-good side of me would like to know what she might be thinking.

    Monday, May 5, 2014 at 1:53 am #